Monday, March 31, 2008

Kodak moments....

' Sure I've been in love a time or two /But in the end I still chose you /No one could ever make me feel this way /That's why it's killing me, what we're going through /Somehow thought 'tween me and you /Our love would stand the test of time and never ever fade
But we're not making love no more /We're not even trying to change /Tell me how it slips away /Does it ever stay the same /We don't even talk no more /We've ran out of words to say/ Tell me it don't have to change/ Won't it ever stay the same
Girl I know that things aren't going right/ But don't you think it deserves a fight /A love like ours don't happen everyday /And we're losing it right as we speak/ And if we don't wake up, it's a memory A time gone past, a love that sailed away
But we're not making love no more /We're not even trying to change /Tell me how it slips away/ Does it ever stay the same/ We don't even talk no more /We've ran out of words to say/ Tell me it don't have to change/ Won't it ever stay the same
I dream of lovers past /and I see a girl so sad /cause She lost the only man she loved /He went away /Well it's not too late for us To change
But we're not making love no more/ We're not even trying to change /Tell me how it slips away /Does it ever stay the same /We don't even talk no more /We've ran out of words to say /Tell me it don't have to change /Won't it ever stay the same ?'
You asked me to listen to these words the other day and felt that they were appropriate for us, sometimes people say things and don't reaslise how weighty they can be, if you really feel this way i'm not sure if to be happy or sad, sad that it sounds like the end or happy that you might feel a quarter of the way i'm feeling right now? but yeah we're not making love no more but i still have so much to say to you...but sadly my words forget what they mean around you..

11 comments:

Anonymous said...

stop doing this to yourself.... i've also had a "broken" heart recently. it's hard as u think marriage, kids/ family & the future with someone - all for it to be taken away seemingly.

True love endures and can't be withdrawn/revoked/let go (against popular convention) so focus on good ways to channel your love for this person. Love also hopes/ trusts all things and doesn't seek reciporcity (it's own) - again against popular convention.

Cheifly... love never fails. Follow it & you would have success, abandon it and you complicate issues.

Platinum Diva said...

thanks babe, i get what your saying i know. Sometimes you just love some people..... and no matter what they do!!!

Take care hun xoxoxo

Dreamgirl said...

Hey anonymous couldn't agree with you more ,true love is selfless...

Anonymous said...

dreamgirl... for all you know, this person could feel exactly the same way as you. Why did you "let go"?? - strange you would do this when by your admission the person hasn't come to know you well yet (knows her not HER) and also appears ideal. You mention another lady but offer little more information.

Two cannot walk together unless they agree - avoid making unilateral decisions in matters that pertain to relationships. I notice this someworth about your posts - it's as though you are not focused on how the other person feels in this situation.

Could be exactly the same as you... have you explored this??

Anonymous said...

am still saying"pele ogbo"?
I dont even know nderstand that,but when that word is said to me.i feel so much better.

Well its sunny today?

"True love might just be around the corner"
So dont forget to look fab.

ONLY TRYNA MAKE YOU SMILE.

Dreamgirl said...

anonymous 2, thank you but i guess i know that if a man really wants you he doesnt need any convincing u wud definitely know, its more complicated than it seems....

anonymous 3 thank you, you DID bring a smile to my face and pele so gbo means 'sorry, u hear?' lil, it works thank you...

Anonymous said...

am Anonymous 1 & 2 - men also want mutual relationships. It is greatly flawed to underpin a relationship based on a man's revealed interest.

Some men are actually put off if you come across as being too passive/ reactive in stance. It kind of feels burdensome to men as they feel you just go along and don't express yourself enough. It also feels like a trap as to some males, females wait for them to be too proactive and subsequently hold them to this and accuse them when they slip up.

Be open with your love and don't fear rejection. Afterall, love must be sincere. You said it's complicated but just walk in Love and show your love selflessly as you said and things always walk out great.

Prayer also helps...

Dreamgirl said...

Hmm, my darling anonymous..ur words really brighten my day but i feel like they give me false hope, i guyess u r right bout me being a bit careful with my emotions but thats because of the situation i was in, I'm not proud of it but thats what it was so i really didnt feel like it was my place to get too involved, but i did without even trying...dont worry he wsnt married oh! LOL

Maybe i'll write to him, but i feel like i've held off for too long to make any impact now!he's more interested in someone else and as much as i dont need him to come running bk, it would hurt a little deeper if i finally lat my vulnerability show...

Anonymous said...

Dreamgirl - this person is engaged isn't he?? Think I know him, just don't worry about him anymore you would be fine babe.

Dreamgirl said...

Hey new anonymous! No he's not engaged than God! Maybe if he was it would be easier to come to terms with, but thanks I'm recovreing one day at a time.

Kiki said...

Love is unconditional...dont play on words when ur hurtn...cause u read into it things that may or maynt be there..take this time to give U the best U deserve then Love will come after....let ur heart hurt so when it heals no knife can cut it as deep again, and it they do..ull jus grow n even thicker skin..